21st Sunday of Ordinary Time
Opening Prayer
Father God,
You created me.
You know me.
And you still choose me!
What keeps me from doing the same for you?
I choose you!
Let me know you through all you’ve created.
Open my heart to the wonder!
Amen
Journal/Reflection Questions
Joshua 24:1-2a, 15-17, 18b
- Joshua calls the people to make a decision whether to choose God or not. When did you make the choice? Share the experience.
- Joshua has a list of reasons to follow God. What does your list of reasons look like? Are they similar or different from the ones Joshua speaks of in this scripture?
Ephesians 5:21-32 or 5:2a, 25-32
- What new insight about marriage do you hear in this scripture? What do you have trouble understanding?
- Saint Paul is saying when a man and woman are joined in marriage; their relationship requires love, reverence, honor, respect and dignity. What would your recipe for a marriage be?
John 6:60-69
- Simon Peter tells Jesus, “you have the words of everlasting life”, what words of scripture or what miracle or what action convinces you that Jesus has the words of everlasting life?
- If there was no place to gather to worship, nowhere to celebrate Eucharist, what would happen to faith?
General Questions for Journaling
- Have you ever been witness to God saving someone? What was this like? How did you feel? Where were you? Have you ever shared this experience with anyone before? Why or why not?
- What would you classify as a modern miracle? How big or small does a miracle need to be for you to believe it was the work of God?
- Where in your home does God dwell? Do guests in your home see, hear, feel the presence of God? Share examples.
- How do you feel when you come out of a church service? What emotions are present? Be honest.
- What can you do to sustain the “joy of the Lord” throughout the week?
- Do you actively choose to follow God or is it something that you out of habit or because it appeases someone else?
- What does it mean to actively choose God?
- Do you think you could ever stop believing in God? Why or why not?
- Have you ever wanted to leave the church, give up faith? What caused you to want to leave it behind?
- How would your life be different if you left your faith behind?
- How does choosing God affect your other decisions in relationship with your spouse, your job, your hobbies, etc.
- When entering into a relationship with a friend or potential spouse, how much emphasis did you, do you put onto faith compatibility?
Closing Prayer
Leader: You have blessed me Lord…
ALL: with each Word you speak!
Leader: You have blessed me Lord…
ALL: with the just and unjust!
Leader: You have blessed me Lord…
ALL: with truth and righteousness!
Leader: You have blessed me Lord…
ALL: with prayers answered and unanswered!
Leader: You have blessed me Lord…
ALL: with a Spirit of courage!
Leader: You have blessed me Lord…
ALL: with love everlasting!
Challenge for the Week: When a couple gets married, traditionally, the parents of each person invites guest to come to be witness to the union. The sacredness of the marriage ceremony too often gets lost in the pomp and circumstance society has put onto the ceremony. So much that many will not even attend the ceremony and just attend the reception. There are even couples who get married someplace out of the county or at the courthouse and then invite friends and family to a reception to celebrate. This all takes away from what a true marriage should be and focuses on the wedding. Spend time this week reflecting on the value of marriage as shared by Saint Paul to the Ephesians and contemplating what you can do to help those you love to uphold this type of love and commitment in their relationships.